To say we are facing an unusual situation is an understatement. A quarter of the world’s population is under lockdown. Almost every part of our lives are impacted. That said, a crisis is a terrible thing to waste. The second most important question right now is: “What can I learn from this?” (The most important question is: how do I keep everybody safe during this outbreak?) Lessons in these situations depend on personal experiences, but here’s what I hope my students are learning right now:
- Bad things are going to happen that are out of your control. What’s important is how you respond to them. I am a stoic. You should read some Marcus Aurelius (he was the bomb) or for a modern day version Ryan Holiday. Key point: You didn’t create this situation. It is impacting you big time. All you control is how you respond to it. How you respond to it will tell you a lot about yourself.
- Those who adapt win. This will require you to change your mindset, the definition of what constitutes “a win,” and the actions you will need to take to achieve your goals. Wishing things were different won’t help, taking the right actions to make the best of your situation will. You are with us to get an education and go on to a successful career and life. What changes do you need to make to achieve that goal?
- Learning is social, use your network in new ways. One of the main reasons that I work to create a culture of engagement in the college is that learning is social. It is best done as a collective effort. Two heads really are better than one, etc. Thanks to our electronically connected world, physical isolation doesn’t mean intellectual isolation. Use your network to help you adapt and learn. It’s way better time spent than reading and responding to the crazies on social media.
- Those professional development activities we ask you to engage in, can really pay off in situations like this. If you are a graduating senior who built connections to potential employers by going to The EXCHANGE, participated in company days in the college, got a mentor, established a relationship with one of our career coaches, went to The Invitational, etc., you are in a much better position to land a job (or internship) than those who didn’t do these things. It’s tough to start relationships through online activity, but it’s pretty easy to maintain them. Invest in those relationships now by reaching out and keeping meaningful conversations going.
- Everybody is stressed. Your reputation will live beyond this crisis. It’s a great time to make a good impression. Your GPA this semester isn’t going to matter as much to your long-term success as how you treat people during this crisis. People remember both boorish behavior and kindness. It’s up to you to make sure they remember you for the right reasons.
We will get through this. Every generation faces a challenge or two, this may be one of yours. The world probably won’t be exactly the same when we get to the other side of this. What you can do now to learn, adapt and nurture key relationships is likely to pay off big in the years ahead. Charge On.